Life often doesn’t go as planned. We can make all the lists, schedules, and plans we want, but sometimes, the most memorable and meaningful experiences come from the moments we never expected. In Marc F. Johnson’s “Running With Scissors,” we’re reminded that life’s unscripted adventures are what make it truly special.
As a child growing up in the 1950s, Marc was captivated by the world of firefighters. His father was a volunteer firefighter, a role that filled young Marc with pride and wonder. The smell of smoke on his father’s clothes was a comfort, a reminder of his father’s bravery and the excitement that surrounded firefighting. One day, Marc’s sense of adventure took over. He decided he would visit the site of a recent fire. Armed with determination and his small tricycle, he set off on a journey that would take him far beyond the limits of what a child should do.
In his mind, Marc knew exactly where he was going. The destination was clear, even if the distance wasn’t. He pedaled furiously, his feet off the pedals to gain speed as he raced down a steep hill. The handlebars shook with the force of his momentum, but Marc was undeterred. He was on a mission, an adventure of his own making. Yet, as often happens in life, reality intervened. Marc’s journey was abruptly interrupted by a concerned neighbor who spotted him on the highway. The lady, dressed in the typical house dress and apron of the time, called him over and offered him homemade cookies and milk. While Marc enjoyed his unexpected treat, his parents were plunged into a state of panic, fearing the worst for their missing son.
When his father finally arrived, the gravity of Marc’s actions became clear. He was lectured on the dangers of his adventure, the worry he had caused, and the importance of listening to his parents. But amidst the scolding, there was also an underlying message: Marc’s curiosity and spirit of adventure, though misguided, were part of what made him who he is. This experience, though terrifying for his parents, became a cherished memory for Marc.
This story is a powerful reminder that life’s most joyful moments often come from the unexpected. As children, we are naturally curious, eager to explore the world around us. As adults, we sometimes lose that sense of wonder, bogged down by responsibilities and routines. But if we allow ourselves to embrace life’s surprises, we can recapture that childlike joy. Whether it’s a spontaneous trip, a chance encounter, or a detour from our daily plans, these unscripted adventures add color and meaning to our lives.
The lesson here is simple: Don’t be afraid to let life take you on an unexpected journey. Embrace the detours, the surprises, and the moments that don’t go according to plan. These are the experiences that will stay with you, the stories you’ll tell, and the memories you’ll cherish. Life is an adventure, and sometimes, the best adventures are the ones we never planned.